"Communication Strategies"

When I think about the people that I socialize with within my community, neighborhood, workplace, friends, and family; I undoubtedly communicate differently with each group.  My verbal and bodily language is different from group to group.  My assumptions and expectations are also very different from one group to another; therefore, more or less communication is necessary in accordance to with whom I am communicating with.

Three strategies that I could use to help me communicate more effectively with the people in my groups would be:

1. Assumptions.  Never assume anything.  Making sure that there is a clear understanding of one’s belief system.  If we suspend judgment, we can come to understand what looks wrong from our personal perspective may look right to someone else (Gonzalez-Mena, (2010).
2.  Listening.  Listening with an open mind is effective when communicating with others.  Listening without interruptions is even better.  Sometimes we jump the gun on the true meaning of what is being presented because we did not take the time to allow the other person to tell you the whole story or point of view.
3. Verbal/Non-verbal cues.  Verbal and non-verbal communication can be tricky.  Being clear of the meaning of either is essential in communication.  If I am not sure what is meant by either form of communication; asking for clarity is best.  We should not think that we know what a person means by his/her language.  Being sure, means to ask the question.  This will minimize conflict and increase resolution when communicating with one another.

Reference:

Gonzalez-Mena, J.  (2010). 50 Strategies for communicating and working with diverse families.

            “Understanding and Appreciating Cultural Differences” (pp. 36-38).  Upper Saddle

      River, NJ:  Pearson Education, Inc.